Peer pressure severely limits achievement 
                    in many schools.  Students who DO NOT do well scorn those 
                    who DO well, and these students join together, socially, to 
                    limit each other’s success.
                
                You see them at school.  They drag themselves to school.  
                  They sit in the back of the room.  They don’t bring 
                  paper or pencil.  Instead of listening or participating, 
                  they read a magazine or find something else to do.  They 
                  are not motivated and they don’t want to learn.  
                  And the clothes they wear needs cleaning or pressing.
                Students?  Oh no.  We’re talking about some 
                  teachers you’ll find on every staff.  We call them 
                  SURVIVORS.  Read pages 5 and 6 in The 
                  First Days of School about those teachers who 
                  simply survive from day to day. 
                These are good people.  They entered 
                  teaching full of fantasy, coupled with dreams to make a difference 
                  in the lives of their students.  Some of them now have 
                  20 years invested in the teacher retirement system, yet they 
                  are only 43 years-old.  They can’t leave teaching, 
                  because they are too young to retire, but have too much in the 
                  retirement system.  Either way they feel trapped. 
                So, they sit in the teacher’s lounge
                 
                   these teachers, who do not do well, scorn those
                    who do well, and these teachers join together, 
                    socially, to limit each other’s success.
                
                And the new teachers do not even know or recognize the peer 
                  pressure that is exerted to severely limit them from learning 
                  and achieving.
                It is done so subtly.  The survivors 
                  sit together in the lunch room with their names “engraved” 
                  on their chairs, where they have been sitting for 20 years reinforcing 
                  each other’s beliefs.  If one is absent that day, 
                  don’t you dare sit in that empty chair.
                If you do, they will say to you, “You know what’s 
                  wrong with this school?  The kids, they don’t want 
                  to learn!”
                And because you are a young, new teacher and you want to be 
                  accepted and be a part of the staff, you politely agree with 
                  the statement and say, “Yeah.”
                You have just been manipulated.
                They say, “We don’t get any backing from the administration.”  
                  Because you want to be accepted, you say, “Yeah.”  
                  You have just been manipulated.
                They say, “We get no parent involvement.”  
                  “The inservice meetings are a waste of time.”  
                  “I wouldn’t bother going to any conference on my 
                  own time.”  You say, “Yeah, Yeah, and Yeah.”
                Very quickly, you believe that the kids, the parents, the administration, 
                  and staff development are all to blame. 
                And don’t forget to blame the class size, school size, 
                  press, national reforms, standards, publisher’s programs, 
                  schools of education and the student’s poverty level, 
                  national origin, and race, too.
                 
                  The surest path to decline is to blame others for 
                    your problems.  You must become an advocate 
                    of what you believe, otherwise you will become a victim of 
                    what others want you to believe. (Pages 284-285, The 
                    First Days of School).
                
                It’s Easier to Develop Good Habits
                You came into teaching with the conviction to make a difference 
                  in children’s lives.  You had this passion and enthusiasm 
                  to succeed.  You were going to develop every child’s 
                  talents and potential so that they can realize their dreams.
                Yet, within one grading period, your enthusiasm, passion and 
                  any dreams you may have had are gone.
                 
                  Behavioral psychologist tell us that it takes 21 
                    days to establish a pattern and about 100 days (about 14 weeks) 
                    to make it automatic.  People who get beyond an initial 
                    three-month threshold period (such as in an exercise program 
                    or diet change) stand a good chance of continuing the pattern 
                    thereafter.
                
                Put another way,
                It is much easier to start to develop 
                  good habits,
                  because it is almost impossible to break bad habits.
                So, start to develop an annual habit–right now.  
                  And add to your habits as you grow in your professional life. 
                
                Effective Teachers Go to Conventions to Learn
                Never, never cease to learn.
                We would like to suggest that you go to at least one conference 
                  a year.  There are conferences all year long.  Some 
                  are national and others are held locally. 
                Ask your colleagues in your learning community if they know 
                  of any conferences.  See chapter 3 in The First 
                  Days of School for a list of associations.  
                  If no one will go with you, go by yourself.  Don’t 
                  be afraid to go by yourself. 
                Conferences are very easy to understand.  Register and 
                  read the program book beforehand.  All conferences have 
                  three major parts.
                Exhibit Hall:  First, there is the exhibit 
                  hall with row after row of vendor booths.  At most every 
                  booth, the people representing the companies are handing things 
                  to you.  And you say, “How much?”  They 
                  say, “Free.”  You say, “Free?  Gimme, 
                  Gimme.” 
                You can tell who the new teachers are.  They walk around 
                  with 16 bags of free sample materials, plus fund raising candies, 
                  pizzas and chocolates. 
                Whereas, the veteran teachers are walking around with one little 
                  bag.  If we’ve seen it all, why are we in the exhibit 
                  hall?  Ah, to see our friends from Minnesota, North Carolina, 
                  and Oregon, whom we have not seen in a year. 
                And, when we see them, the conversations are always the same.  
                  “What are you doing?  And they ask you “What 
                  are you doing?”  Everyone is doing, doing, 
                  not complaining. 
                Listen to the professional attitude of successful teachers.  
                  They are all participating, contributing, developing and doing.
                It is heart-warming and contagious.  You go back 
                  to school fully charged with a happy, positive attitude and 
                  proud that you are a fellow teacher. 
                But, that’s only one part of a conference.
                Sessions:  Second, there are the sessions.  
                  At any given hour, there can be as many as 30 or more sessions, 
                  all at the same time and you have to make a choice. 
                Read the program and plan ahead.  If you get to the session 
                  at the scheduled hour, many times the session is already full. 
                
                Conference-goers are not like some of the negative teachers 
                  back at school, who whine about why they have to go to in-service 
                  meetings to learn.
                Veteran conference-goers know that sessions can fill 
                  early, especially if there is a well-known speaker or the session 
                  features a popular subject. 
                In fact, people are there before the session starts, waiting 
                  for the previous session to finish.  And when these people 
                  leave, they squeeze their way in to get a seat. 
                The next presenter also squeezes his or her way in.  Goes 
                  to the front to set up.  Reaches into his or her bag and 
                  pulls out a sheaf of handouts and says to the person sitting 
                  in front, “Please take one and pass the rest back.”  
                  And does the presenter ever bring enough handouts? 
                “NO.”
                And that’s why Rosa Parks said, “I will not sit 
                  in the back of a bus.”  Rosa Parks is an American 
                  hero.  She gave everyone the choice to sit where one chooses 
                  to sit, to eat where one chooses to eat, and to worship where 
                  one chooses to worship.
                There was a time when we could discriminate against minorities, 
                  by segregating them into less appealing places. That way, they 
                  could not get anything, while others got to choose everything: 
                  jobs, schooling, and opportunities.
                However, because of Rosa Parks, today, the only person 
                  who can discriminate against you is yourself. 
                At the end of the session, the presenter will often say, “These 
                  books and materials are just too heavy and costly to take back 
                  on an airplane, so if any wants…”.  Vroom.  
                  You jump up there and you say, “Gimme, Gimme.”  
                  The front row of the room is the land of opportunity.
                And then there’s the third part of the conference that 
                  is not even in the printed program. 
                Receptions:  It’s all of the parties 
                  and receptions that are held after the scheduled sessions are 
                  over. 
                It’s easy to get invited.  Just read the program.  
                  Look for the posted signs.  Act interested at the booths 
                  and the vendors will invite you to their receptions. 
                You go from one reception to the next: food and drinks galore. 
                
                The best part of the receptions and parties is you get to meet 
                  and network with other teachers–teachers who are all doing 
                  and contributing to education.  No whiners.
                Oh, these people are easy to find.  Listen to them talk.  
                  They believe in the potential of all children.  They believe 
                  in the dignity of the profession. 
                Most importantly, they believe in nourishing themselves by 
                  constantly learning.  That’s why they go to conferences. 
                
                And On Monday
                And, when you get back to school on Monday, you have this big 
                  smile on your face.  You look at the bags of free goodies, 
                  reams and reams of handouts from the sessions with valuable 
                  information, strategies, and techniques to help you improve 
                  your competence, and, most importantly, pleasant memories of 
                  the professionals who make you proud that you are a teacher 
                  too.
                So, learn to allow nourishing teachers to nourish you too.
                Go to a convention at least once a year.  
                  It’s an infectious habit you will enjoy.
                Denise Campbell of the Cherry Creek School District in Colorado, 
                  says, “The language arts conference is the highlight of 
                  my professional year.  The best ideas are gathered there 
                  and I am such a thief.” 
                  
                  Go to conferences.  Go to “steal.”  Go 
                  to learn.  Choose to enhance the quality of your life and 
                  the competence of your profession.  What an awesome habit 
                  to develop.
                Successful People Make Choices
                Before another day goes by, we beseech you to read 
                  Unit E in The First Days of School.  
                  On pages 277 to 284, read about teachers who
                 
                  DECIDE to talk like other teachers, dress 
                    like other teachers, and act like other teachers, and those 
                    who
                  CHOOSE to think for themselves and continually 
                    seek information so that they can determine their own destiny.
                
                We know that 60 percent of teachers have not been to a convention, 
                  conference, or workshop on their own time and money for an average 
                  of ten years.  They see other teachers with the same attitude 
                  of not wanting to learn, so they DECIDE to do the same thing. 
                
                Then, we also know that from March 30 to April 2, over 12,000 
                  teachers CHOSE to attend the national conference of the National 
                  Science Teachers Association.  These teachers have chosen 
                  to expand their potential, increase their capacity, and enhance 
                  their own lives and dreams.  They enjoy learning.
                From "Harry Potter and the Chamber of Secrets," Professor 
                  Albus Dumbledore speaking to Harry Potter, says, "It is 
                  our choices that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities."
                Here are some habits you can choose to develop:
                
                  - Choose to invest in yourself so that you can increase your 
                    value to others.
 
- Choose to learn and grow as a professional.
 
- Choose to avoid thoughts and people who will limit you.
 
- Choose to stop surviving and existing and start taking small 
                    risks to create incremental growth.
 
- Choose to identify what you want to do with your life and 
                    choose to DO IT. 
Effective Teachers Never Cease to Learn
                What you have just read is an abstract of the message found 
                  in the CD Never Cease to Learn.  
                  It can be found as a free addition in the new, third edition 
                  of The First Days of School.  
                  You can listen to the 38-minute Enhanced CD on a CD player or 
                  view it on a personal computer. 
                We know that you can learn and grow professionally, which will 
                  move you from the level of survival to the level of mastery.  
                  As a master teacher you will impact lives and help children 
                  realize their talents, potential, and dreams.